@Knittinggrace @sinbach Those are actually things you said about others. So only you can answer that question, only you and God know what's in your heart and what your motive is in why you said them.

You don't have to answer to me or justify anything, cause if your heart and motives are pure then you don't have to defend yourself, and if they aren't then thats between you and God, not me.

All I know is that Jesus desire is for us to work together as one as He and the Father are one. And God said that we can't love Him if we don't love our brother. It must make Him sad when we fight each other instead of standing together as one to fight the real enemy.