I imagine that there was confusion and quarelling at the marriage in Cana of Galilee after the wine finished. Mary knew that lack of wine was the cause of all the problems. She went to Jesus and said, "They have no wine."
The quarelling and constant arguments in your marriage is because the fresh wine of love has been exhausted. Humbly go to the Lord on your knees and say: "Lord, I have no wine." The Lord will turn water into wine in your marriage.
Every believer has been anointed by God, but only a few operate in the anointing. Between your anointing and the manifestation of your anointing is a wilderness where you'll be tried and tested. If you pass the wilderness test, like Jesus, you'll return in the power of the Holy Spirit to do wonders. Have you been to the wilderness?
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Thanks and God bless you for your deep understanding of temptations and how to deal with them.