Matthew 7:13
13 “Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it. 14 For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it."

I've heard many philosophies, theologies, ideas from people but only One who is the Word the only Begotten Son of God. And He warned us the true gate is narrow to everlasting life.
Why not ask Him how you enter through that gate?!