Them: Please send more money
Me: What do you need it for?
Them: I am living by faith! Don't you want to "partner" with me in all the good works I am doing for God?
Me: ...
Them: Don't you trust me? I don't want your advice or accountability, just send more money.
Me: But you actually live better than me. I am not judging your lifestyle or ministry decisions, but I am also not automatically obligated to pay for it.