I am a mom of 5 children, ages 17-24. Happily married 26 years and believe me, I wouldn't trade any of it. I'm usually the last one to ask for personal prayer. I'm optimistic in personality and generally positive. But I'm asking for prayer tonight as I go to bed. My heart is so grieved over parenting. When they are young they step on your toes, when they are old they step on your heart. To be honest, I'm so tired of it. Pray I stay hidden in Christ, and not react out of my flesh. THANK YOU
@KarMarJo57
So true. It's not difficult when I'm not around them... As would be expected. And I do really well praying and standing in their absence. But the interactions especially with the youngest one are so hurtful because he lies and manipulates to constantly take the easy path and get his own way. Serious character issues. I know God will cause them to awaken in his time. Of course much of it is immaturity period when we are young we are consumed with ourselves. I know that I was
@KarMarJo57
I laugh as I remember when they were smaller and toddlers and it was so difficult keeping up with them, I felt like that time period was tough. They are all less than 2 years apart. That same long time span has been experienced as each of them have been in their teen years. It makes you feel like you've been sucker punched back and forth from one side to another for a time period that seems to drag on and on. 🤪
@Rinati Not only did I have that, I also had special needs to care for on top of regular mother, and homesteading to save money. I had three diabetics, one which had a speech problem and on oxygen for 7 years. Another blind and needed physical care with autism, and a third one on a vent and oxygen WHILE homeschooling and running a homestead. They were challenging times. Sometimes just a few hours sleep. But now I am 63, I still have a special child to care for. I don't get to do as others my age
@KarMarJo57
Ok, you have totally given me strength with this one statement! Thankfulness and gratitude and praise be to HIM. The Lord in his Mercy and his wisdom chooses our testings that will effectively create his son in US ♥️
@KarMarJo57 @Rinati the thing is its always been God. While I was raising my 10 children, I tried to hard. A few walk with the Lord but not all.
@Kruselady @KarMarJo57
I think you have that exactly right. The trying too hard I mean. I think the problem is the expectations are so high in our own hearts and we have a hard time letting God be God to them. I wish I would have seen it that way then
@Rinati @KarMarJo57 I was trying . Some of my children started out un munisrty and going to buble school but they got bad teaching and discouraged. They do belong to God. I pray a lot for them and the people on their age group that got turned off by the church
@Kruselady @KarMarJo57
Disheartening.... But God! I have to keep looking up because if I look at what's going on in the world around us it messes up my vision. Thank you all for encouraging me today
@Rinati @KarMarJo57 thats true. I have seen so many turn away. Keeps me in prayer and trusting the almjghty God maker of heaven and earth. He can change their hearts. He made them.
@Rinati I feel your broken heart! I'm sorry and I will pray for your whole family. Chin up! Christ will carry you through! Hugs!!!!
@Rinati. May the Lord give you wisdom to deal with this all! You are in my regular prayer!
@Rinati I went through this as well. I am learning to truly give it to Him and rest. I have prayed that the Lord do whatever in their lives to get a hold of them. I am seeing some beginning to 'get the narrow way'. But I realized I can't do anymore for them but pray. My work is done. It has to be His now.