Today is my estranged dad's cremation service. He died the day after my first hospital visit last month - 12th November. He was 78.

So mixed emotions for me. I won't be attending because I'm still not up to a journey of that kind & as I avoid any stress I can.

He left behind his 3rd wife, 4 sons, 2 step daughters

I'm sad by the pain of a very broken, fragmented family.

He was saved.

I was even contacted by a half brother I hadn't seen for 32 years, and 2 half brothers I've not seen for 14 years

I'm sad he left a legacy, sadly, of broken people and lives. But I also know enough of the 'why' of how he lived and have no bitterness. Just sadness.

He ministered originally in Wolverhampton, setting up youth work projects. And was a passionate speaker and brilliant orator. I definitely learned those skills from him.

I said my real goodbyes 14 years ago. Today I'll say it one last time.

Andy
Photo : Top left to right
Steven (my son), Mark (youngest half brother of 3 boys), me, my dad

@Berrybunchfamily look at that sweet baby!!! So cute! And you haven't changed! I'm sorry for your loss and pray you can focus on good memories of your dad.

@MaryMamuzich thankyou

Little Steven!. We've got a photo of Nathan from the same day - he was just a few days old. Very cute.

He's sitting two seats away from me right now. I'm not sure he'd appreciate being called cute anymore, especially as he is taller than me 🙂

@Berrybunchfamily oh pinch his cheeks and say he's the sweetest cutest thing! 🤣🤣