@KarlGessler thanks Karl

Mostly, today, I've been becoming, slowly, progressively worse...and feeling sorry for myself

Jo is, I guess, a day ahead of me.

Our 3 boys seem ok so far, which is good....I had to take paracetamol earlier...I'm very reluctant to take meds like that...giving in to taking some, means I have to admit I'm really not very well - couldn't ignore that headache any longer